\”Hope is the bird who sings in the dark, knowing the light will come, \” wrote the poet Tagore. When things fall apart, we must grieve and then, choose wisely. The most important question: Who do you want to be, or become? We can balance our loneliness with joy in spending time with ourselves. We can heal our frustration with work by opting to see our employment as a job, not a career. The real career is to evolve into the best person we are capable of becoming. Here\’s how I helped one woman do it…